Ladies, cheer up.
Have you ever heard of that popular saying on how God is still writing your love story?
Well, He is.
Don’t rush on meeting “the one” (Hearts on background added haha)
Seriously, he will come around or maybe, he’s already around. You wouldn’t want him seeing you looking tensely from left to right as if you were waiting on someone else right?
Yes, waiting is tough like boiling-hot-lava kind of tough. I have had that same feeling of thrill, of anticipation and fear of “what ifs”.
What if he’s not gonna like me?
What if he’s already with someone else?
What if he doesn’t exist?
What if I’m never, ever going to marry at all?
Whoa, whoa! Stop your horses ladies!
Too much of an imagination you got there!
Listen, if he’s for you, he’s for you. Period.
Right now, Jesus is calling you to himself.
He desires to walk with you, to know you, to touch your heart.
In every girl’s life is a first dance and that very first dance is important.
There she learns to take graceful steps, making beautiful twists and turns, knowing the perfect timing to fall on her partner’s arms.
She learns to listen to the beat, dance along with every rhythm, allowing every note to swing her in a beautiful song.
She would know how important it is to submit to the gentleman’s leading and at the same time understand that she too has a role to play in this dance.
However, that first dance is kind of a critical thing.
You have to be careful in deciding who you want to dance with.
Choosing the wrong partner will lead you to the wrong dance.
So who is the right partner?
He is the perfect partner.
He is the perfect first dance.
This is what Jesus wants.
You dancing with Him, trusting in His leading and falling in love with Him that you may know how love must be and what it really means.
One more thing.
Only He can decide the right time to let you dance with someone else.
He doesn’t want you dancing with the wrong man.
He wants you to dance with someone who has a heart after His and you have to understand that until that man comes along, He’s not letting any other man (even if that man is cute and handsome) cut-in with His dance with you.
To Him, you are special. Therefore, He will only give your hand to someone who would look at you and see your worth. Someone who would ask Jesus for your hand before he asks you for it. He would be someone who would rather see you love Jesus more than you could ever love him and someone whose eyes you can stare into and see his love and devotion for Christ.
Right now, dance with Jesus and love every moment with Him, fall deeply and madly in love with Him.
Don’t worry. When He lets the right man cut-in, He will still be dancing with you guys. He will be your and your future husband’s dance teacher and even so much more than that, He will be your God. He will keep both of you close to His heart as you keep Him close to yours.
So ladies, wait. He still has so much steps to teach you, so much you still need to learn. In your waiting, may you find Christ and find Him more than enough, satisfying and heart-filling.